What Kind of Future Is She Trying to Create?
What Kind of Future Is She Trying to Create? Gary: Yeah. Originally, women’s job was to be willing and able to create a future, because women are more willing to see it than most men are. It doesn’t mean they’re better. It just means they’re more willing. Class Participant: Is that also because women are more likely to go out and conquer the world, and men are more likely to stay in the same place?
Most humanoid men would rather have a comfortable life and create a nest for their children than go out in the world and conquer it. Women want to create a future. The travesty done to women has been to make them believe that their desire for the future is about children, which is not actually so. They are not doing what they’re doing for children. They’re doing what they’re doing for what will create a different possibility. Everything that is times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD and POC, All Nine, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds. (Please read about the clearing statement here: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/about/how-it-works/the-clearing-statement/ )
When you’re with a woman, guys, you have to look at “What kind of future is she trying to create here?” If she is trying to create a future that is about having children, she’s buying into this reality. Is that the reality you want to live by?
If you get that she’s trying to create babies, are you going to have the same kind of relationship with her that you would if she wasn’t?
Class Participant: No.
Gary: If you start looking at what the future is that she is trying to create, you will no longer buy the wrongness of you. When a woman is willing to create a future that includes you, it’s not going to make the wrongness of you more real than the choice you make. What would you create if you knew what future she was trying to create?
If she’s trying to create a greater future than you’re willing to have, can you be with her? Class Participant: I got a no for that.
Gary: Yeah. That’s a no. You have to be willing to create the future she’s willing to have. How great a future is she willing to have? If you’re willing to know that, you can create anything with her. You can create a relationship. Let’s say you had a woman who desired to go out and conquer the world and you were perfectly happy being home, not doing a whole lot. If that was the case, could that woman stay with you? Class Participant: No. Class Participant: If that was the case, then what? Gary: Then you’d have to ask, “Can we create anything good?” Class Participant: Yeah
Gary: The only way you can create a relationship is if her desire for future and your capacity to go there can match. If you look at the relationships that haven’t worked for you in the past, did the woman have a desire for a future that you had no desire for? Class Participant: Yes. Gary: That is why those relationships didn’t work. Everything that is times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong, Good and Bad, POD and POC, All Nine, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds.
Class participant: That explains why I have bailed out, or pulled out, or chosen not to see a woman anymore. It’s because I was aware of the future. I was aware of it but unwilling to see it and I made myself wrong for it. Gary: If the woman has a future in which you have to be a follower, are you going to be any good at that? Class Participant: No. Gary: No. You’re not a follower. Are you willing to be a leader? Class Participant: Yes, I am.
Douglas, Gary. The Gentlemen’s Club (pp. 224-225). Access Consciousness Publishing. Kindle Edition.
What future You desire to create that you were never willing to recognise before?
Everything that is times a godzillion…
Ps please remember questions here are not looking for answers they are here to give you the space that asking a question creates. Space where something amazing can arise, much more than your brain can generate.
I pick pits and pieces from what speaks to me it doesn’t mean I agree or disagree or can wrap my mind around it, if it’s light its right is that to follow.
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